The Proper Use of the Gift of Tongues

Introduction

As I write this chapter on the proper use of the gift of tongues, I can almost hear the reactions from my Pentecostal/Charismatic brothers and sisters, as well as my non-Charismatic or barely Charismatic brethren. Some may think I go too far, while others may feel I don’t go far enough. Recently, two individuals in my own church expressed these opposing views—one saying I was too Charismatic and the other claiming I wasn’t Charismatic enough. To me, this confirms that I am where I should be: on a quest for the radical middle.

My goal in this chapter is to present a balanced perspective that honors the biblical teaching on tongues while addressing the practical realities of their use in the modern Church. I hope to show you why I take the stands I do concerning this gift and to encourage a spirit of unity as we explore its purpose and function.

The Purpose of the Gift of Tongues in the Modern Church

When examining the gift of speaking in tongues (referred to as “glossolalia” in Greek), it is important to recognize two distinct aspects of this gift:

1. The Evangelistic Aspect: This involves the public use of tongues and their interpretation.
2. The Private Aspect: This involves the personal use of tongues in prayer.

Failure to discern these distinctions leads to confusion and, in some cases, improper application or prohibition of the gift in public church services. By understanding the different purposes of this gift, we can approach it with greater clarity and appreciation. Proper discernment helps the Church honor this gift as a divine tool for spiritual edification and outreach.

The Evangelistic Use of the Gift of Tongues in Today’s Church

According to the Apostle Paul, the gift of tongues is a sign for unbelievers:

“Therefore tongues are for a sign, not to those who believe but to unbelievers; but prophesying is not for unbelievers but for those who believe.” (1 Corinthians 14:22)

This gift creates what I call the “astonishment factor.” When unbelievers witness tongues being spoken and properly interpreted, they are confronted with evidence of God’s presence. This can bypass intellectual defenses and speak directly to their hearts, where faith is born. Tongues can serve as a bridge to lead unbelievers into a deeper awareness of God’s reality and power.

However, Paul cautions that the use of this gift must be orderly:

“Let all things be done decently and in order.” (1 Corinthians 14:40)

Outbursts of tongues without interpretation in public services are not orderly. Paul instructs:

“But if there is no interpreter, let him keep silent in church, and let him speak to himself and to God.” (1 Corinthians 14:28)

Furthermore, if unbelievers enter a gathering where everyone is speaking in tongues without interpretation, they may perceive it as chaotic:

“Therefore if the whole church comes together in one place, and all speak with tongues, and there come in those who are uninformed or unbelievers, will they not say that you are out of your mind?” (1 Corinthians 14:23)

For tongues to fulfill their purpose as a sign for unbelievers, interpretation is essential. It transforms the spoken message into a clear declaration of God’s truth, fostering understanding and faith among listeners.

The Private Use of the Gift of Tongues

Praying in tongues, or praying in the Spirit, is deeply beneficial for the life of the believer. Jude writes:

“But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit.” (Jude 20)

Paul echoes this idea:

“Likewise the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God.” (Romans 8:26-27)

Praying in tongues allows believers to tap into the power Jesus promised:

“But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” (Acts 1:8)

Paul also notes that speaking in tongues is a way to give thanks to God:

“Otherwise, if you bless with the spirit, how will he who occupies the place of the uninformed say ‘Amen’ at your giving of thanks, since he does not understand what you say? For you indeed give thanks well, but the other is not edified.” (1 Corinthians 14:16-17)

Praying or singing in the Spirit builds the believer’s faith and offers spiritual benefits that align with God’s purposes. It fosters a deepened intimacy with God and enhances spiritual vitality. Many believers testify to experiencing peace, clarity, and renewed strength after praying in tongues. It is a gift that enriches personal devotion and reinforces a believer’s connection to the Holy Spirit.

Final Instructions Concerning the Gift of Tongues

When all is said and done, the gift of tongues is considered the least of the spiritual gifts. Paul exhorts believers:

“But earnestly desire the best gifts. And yet I show you a more excellent way.” (1 Corinthians 12:31)

Pentecostals and Charismatics have, at times, elevated this gift beyond its intended purpose, leading to pride and spiritual elitism. I say this from personal experience, as I once held such attitudes. However, the purpose of tongues is not to elevate individuals but to edify the body of Christ. Its proper use reflects humility and a desire to serve others rather than draw attention to oneself.

Paul encourages believers to prioritize prophecy over tongues:

“Therefore, brethren, desire earnestly to prophesy, and do not forbid to speak with tongues.” (1 Corinthians 14:39)

While tongues should not be forbidden, they must be used appropriately. Public gatherings should include teaching, prophecy, and edification:

“How is it then, brethren? Whenever you come together, each of you has a psalm, has a teaching, has a tongue, has a revelation, has an interpretation. Let all things be done for edification.” (1 Corinthians 14:26)

The emphasis on edification highlights the importance of creating an atmosphere where all spiritual gifts contribute to the growth and unity of the Church.

Conclusion

The gift of tongues is valuable both for its private and evangelistic purposes. It should never cause division among believers, nor should it become a source of pride. Instead, let us use this gift as God intended—with love, humility, and a desire to build up others. As we consider its role in the Church, let us remember:

“In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, love.”

By approaching tongues with a balanced perspective, the Church can experience the full blessing of this gift while maintaining harmony among its members. Whether used in personal prayer or public ministry, the gift of tongues points to the power and presence of the Holy Spirit, working through us to glorify God and accomplish His purposes.

How Does Understanding the Motivation for Using Spiritual Gifts Impact the Proper Use of the Gift of Tongues?

Understanding spiritual gift motivation is crucial for effectively using the gift of tongues. By recognizing the reasons behind spiritual gifts, individuals can focus on fostering community, encouraging faith, and enhancing spiritual growth. This awareness ensures that the gift is used authentically, promoting harmony and deeper connections within the faith community.

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