Love and the Greatest Commandment - Bible Study on Unconditional Love

Love and the Greatest Commandment – Love Bible Study #2

Pastor Duke Taber

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Introduction

In the Gospel of Matthew, we find a powerful and transformative teaching from Jesus Christ on the greatest commandment. This teaching, recorded in Matthew 22:36-40, reveals the heart of God’s desire for His people and provides a foundation for the Christian life. As believers, it is crucial that we understand and apply this teaching, as it has profound implications for our relationship with God and others.

The passage begins with a question from a Pharisee, who was an expert in the law. He asked Jesus, “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?” (Matthew 22:36, NKJV). This question was not asked out of a sincere desire to learn from Jesus, but rather as a test to try to entangle Him in a legal debate. The Pharisees had identified 613 commandments in the Old Testament law and had spent much time debating which commandments were the most important.

However, Jesus’ response cut through the legalistic clutter and went straight to the heart of the matter. He answered, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 22:37-40, NKJV).

In this profound answer, Jesus summarized the entire law and prophetic writings in two great commandments: love for God and love for others. He was revealing that the essence of God’s desire for His people is a relationship based on love, not mere external obedience to a set of rules.

As we study this passage, may our hearts be opened to the transformative power of God’s love. May we be challenged to love God with all our being and to love others as ourselves. And may we discover the joy and fulfillment that comes from living a life centered on love for God and others.

Key Scripture: Matthew 22:36-40 (NKJV)

“Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?” Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.”

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Part 1: The Context of Jesus’ Teaching

To fully appreciate the significance of Jesus’ teaching on the greatest commandment, it is important to understand the context in which it was given. The passage in Matthew 22:36-40 takes place during a period of intense questioning and testing of Jesus by the religious leaders of His day.

The Pharisees, who were experts in the law, had been trying to trap Jesus with difficult questions and challenges. They hoped to expose Him as a false teacher and discredit His ministry. In the verses preceding this passage, the Pharisees had already tried to entangle Jesus with questions about paying taxes to Caesar (Matthew 22:15-22) and the resurrection (Matthew 22:23-33).

In this particular instance, one of the Pharisees, who was a lawyer, asked Jesus a question to test Him: “Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?” (Matthew 22:36, NKJV). The Pharisees had debated this question extensively, and there was no clear consensus among them. Some emphasized the importance of the commandments related to ritual and sacrifice, while others prioritized the ethical and moral commandments.

The lawyer’s question was not a genuine inquiry, but rather an attempt to draw Jesus into a controversial debate and find a way to accuse Him of contradicting the law. If Jesus chose one commandment over another, the Pharisees could argue that He was minimizing the importance of the other commandments.

However, Jesus’ response to the question was not what the Pharisees expected. Instead of engaging in a legal debate or prioritizing one commandment over another, Jesus went straight to the heart of the matter. He answered the question by quoting from the Old Testament law, specifically from Deuteronomy 6:5 and Leviticus 19:18.

In quoting these two commandments, Jesus was not introducing a new teaching, but rather highlighting the essence of the law that had always been present. The commandment to love God with all one’s being was part of the Shema, the daily prayer that every devout Jew recited. And the commandment to love one’s neighbor as oneself was a key ethical principle in the law.

What was remarkable about Jesus’ answer was not that He quoted these commandments, but that He identified them as the greatest and most important commandments. He was saying that the entire law and prophetic writings could be summarized and fulfilled by these two commandments.

This teaching was a direct challenge to the legalistic approach of the Pharisees, who emphasized external obedience to the law over internal transformation of the heart. Jesus was revealing that the heart of God’s desire for His people was not mere rule-keeping, but a relationship based on love.

By identifying love as the greatest commandment, Jesus was also revealing the true nature of God. The God of the Bible is not a distant, impersonal deity who demands obedience, but a loving Father who desires a relationship with His children. As the apostle John would later write, “God is love” (1 John 4:8, NKJV).

Understanding the context of Jesus’ teaching helps us appreciate the radical nature of His message. In a religious culture that prioritized external obedience and ritual, Jesus was calling people back to the heart of God’s desire for them. He was inviting them into a relationship based on love, not legalism.

As we study this passage, may we too be challenged to examine our own hearts and motives. Are we merely going through the motions of religious observance, or are we truly seeking to love God and others? May Jesus’ words penetrate our hearts and transform us from the inside out.

Reflective Questions:

  1. Why do you think the Pharisees were trying to test Jesus with this question?
  2. How does understanding the context of Jesus’ teaching help us appreciate its significance?
  3. What does Jesus’ response reveal about the heart of God’s desire for His people?
  4. In what ways can we fall into the trap of legalism and external obedience, rather than a relationship based on love?
  5. How can we cultivate a heart that truly seeks to love God and others?

Part 2: The First and Great Commandment

In response to the Pharisee’s question, Jesus began by quoting from Deuteronomy 6:5, which says, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength” (NKJV). Jesus identified this as the first and great commandment.

The commandment to love God with all our being is a call to complete devotion and loyalty. It involves our entire person – our heart, soul, and mind. The heart refers to our emotions and desires, the soul to our very life and being, and the mind to our thoughts and understanding.

To love God with all our heart means to have a deep affection for Him, to desire Him above all else, and to find our joy and satisfaction in Him. It means to be completely devoted to Him and to seek His will and glory in all things. As the psalmist declared, “Whom have I in heaven but You? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides You” (Psalm 73:25, NKJV).

Loving God with all our heart requires a daily choice to put Him first in our lives. It means surrendering our own desires and plans to His will and purpose. It means seeking His face in prayer and worship, and delighting in His presence. It means loving what He loves and hating what He hates.

To love God with all our soul means to surrender our very life to Him, to acknowledge Him as our Creator and Sustainer, and to find our identity and purpose in Him. It means to be willing to lay down our lives for His sake and to live for Him alone. As Jesus said, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me” (Matthew 16:24, NKJV).

Loving God with all our soul means recognizing that our life is not our own, but belongs to Him. It means living each day in light of eternity, with a sense of urgency and purpose. It means being willing to suffer for His name and to count all things as loss for the excellence of knowing Him (Philippians 3:8).

To love God with all our mind means to seek to know Him more fully, to meditate on His Word, and to align our thoughts and understanding with His truth. It means to love God with our intellect, to use our minds to honor Him, and to seek His wisdom and guidance in all things.

Loving God with all our mind involves a diligent study of His Word, a commitment to truth and sound doctrine, and a willingness to submit our thoughts and opinions to His authority. It means taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5) and being transformed by the renewing of our minds (Romans 12:2).

Jesus’ emphasis on loving God with all our being highlights the comprehensive nature of our devotion to Him. It is not enough to love God with just one aspect of our being, such as our emotions or intellect. Rather, our love for God must encompass every facet of who we are.

This commandment to love God with all our being is not a burdensome requirement, but an invitation to experience the fullness of life and joy that can only be found in a relationship with Him. When we love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, we discover that He is the source of all goodness, beauty, and truth. We find that our deepest longings and desires are satisfied in Him alone.

Loving God with all our being also has a transformative effect on our lives. As we seek to honor and glorify Him in all things, we begin to reflect His character and nature more fully. We become more like Christ, who perfectly loved and obeyed the Father. We experience the fruit of the Spirit – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

Jesus’ emphasis on this commandment as the first and greatest reveals the priority that God places on our relationship with Him. It is the foundation upon which all other commandments and teachings rest. Without a genuine love for God, our obedience to His commands becomes mere legalism and religiosity.

As we seek to love God with all our being, we must recognize that this is not something we can do in our own strength. Our hearts are prone to wander and our minds are easily distracted. We need the grace and power of the Holy Spirit to enable us to love God as we ought.

This is why Jesus promised to send the Holy Spirit to His disciples, to help them love and obey God. As He said, “If you love Me, keep My commandments. And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever” (John 14:15-16, NKJV).

As we rely on the Holy Spirit and seek to abide in Christ, we will grow in our love for God and our ability to keep His commandments. We will experience the joy and freedom that comes from living in a right relationship with our Creator and Savior.

Reflective Questions:

  1. What does it mean to love God with all your heart, soul, and mind?
  2. Why do you think Jesus identified this commandment as the first and greatest?
  3. How does loving God with all your being affect your daily life and decisions?
  4. In what areas of your life do you struggle to love God with all your being?
  5. How can you cultivate a deeper love for God and a greater desire to know and obey Him?

Part 3: The Second Great Commandment

After identifying the first and great commandment, Jesus went on to say, “And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself'” (Matthew 22:39, NKJV). This commandment, which Jesus quoted from Leviticus 19:18, is closely connected to the first commandment and flows naturally from it.

To love our neighbor as ourselves means to extend the same care, concern, and compassion to others that we would want for ourselves. It means to treat others with kindness, respect, and dignity, recognizing that they are created in the image of God, just as we are.

The word “neighbor” in this commandment is not limited to those who live near us or those who are like us. Rather, it includes all people, regardless of their race, ethnicity, social status, or religious beliefs. As Jesus illustrated in the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), our neighbor is anyone who is in need of our help and compassion.

Loving our neighbor as ourselves requires a radical shift in perspective. It challenges us to move beyond self-centeredness and to consider the needs and well-being of others. It calls us to put aside our own preferences and prejudices and to see others through the eyes of Christ.

This kind of love is not a mere sentiment or feeling, but a deliberate choice to act in the best interests of others. It is a love that is willing to sacrifice and serve, even when it is costly or inconvenient. As the apostle Paul wrote, “Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others” (Philippians 2:4, NKJV).

Loving our neighbor as ourselves is a reflection of the love that God has shown us in Christ. While we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8). He laid down His life for us, not because we deserved it, but because of His great love and mercy. As the apostle John wrote, “In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another” (1 John 4:10-11, NKJV).

When we love our neighbor as ourselves, we are fulfilling the heart of God’s moral law. Jesus said that all the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments – love for God and love for others (Matthew 22:40). In other words, every other commandment and ethical principle in the Bible can be summed up in these two great commandments.

Loving our neighbor as ourselves has practical implications for every area of life. It means treating others with honesty and integrity in our business dealings. It means being generous with our time, resources, and talents to help those in need. It means speaking words of encouragement and blessing, rather than criticism and gossip. It means forgiving those who have wronged us and seeking reconciliation whenever possible.

Loving our neighbor as ourselves also has implications for our social and political engagement. It means advocating for justice and compassion for the poor, the marginalized, and the oppressed. It means working to break down barriers of prejudice and discrimination and to build bridges of understanding and respect. It means being a voice for the voiceless and a defender of the weak and vulnerable.

At the same time, loving our neighbor as ourselves does not mean affirming or condoning sinful behavior. Rather, it means speaking the truth in love and calling others to repentance and faith in Christ. It means being willing to confront sin and injustice, even when it is unpopular or costly.

Ultimately, loving our neighbor as ourselves is a reflection of our love for God. As Jesus said, “Inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me” (Matthew 25:40, NKJV). When we love and serve others, we are loving and serving Christ Himself.

Loving our neighbor as ourselves is not an optional extra for the Christian life, but a fundamental requirement. It is a necessary evidence of our faith in Christ and our love for God. As the apostle John wrote, “If someone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?” (1 John 4:20, NKJV).

As we seek to love our neighbor as ourselves, we must recognize that this is not something we can do in our own strength. Our natural inclination is towards selfishness and self-preservation. We need the transforming power of the Holy Spirit to enable us to love others with the love of Christ.

This is why Paul prayed for the Ephesian believers, “that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height – to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:17-19, NKJV).

As we are filled with the love of Christ and empowered by His Spirit, we will be able to love our neighbor as ourselves. We will experience the joy and blessing of being conduits of God’s love to a hurting and broken world. And we will bring glory to God as we reflect His character and nature to those around us.

Reflective Questions:

  1. Who do you consider to be your “neighbor”? How can you expand your understanding of this term?
  2. What practical steps can you take to love your neighbor as yourself?
  3. How does the parable of the Good Samaritan challenge and inspire you to love others?
  4. In what areas of your life do you struggle to love others as yourself?
  5. How can you cultivate a heart of compassion and service towards others, especially those who are different from you?

Part 4: The Inseparable Connection

After giving the two great commandments, Jesus made a profound statement: “On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 22:40, NKJV). This statement reveals the inseparable connection between loving God and loving others.

Jesus was indicating that all the other commandments and teachings in the Old Testament could be summarized and fulfilled by these two commandments. In other words, if we truly love God with all our being and love our neighbor as ourselves, we will naturally keep the other commandments.

This connection between loving God and loving others is a recurring theme throughout the New Testament. The apostle John wrote, “If someone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?” (1 John 4:20, NKJV). James also emphasized the connection between faith and works, stating that faith without works is dead (James 2:14-26).

These passages reveal that our love for God is demonstrated and authenticated by our love for others. We cannot claim to love God while harboring hatred, bitterness, or indifference towards our fellow human beings. As Jesus said, “Inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me” (Matthew 25:40, NKJV).

Loving God and loving others are not separate or competing commandments, but are intimately connected and mutually reinforcing. As we grow in our love for God, we will naturally grow in our love for others. And as we love others with the love of Christ, we will deepen our relationship with God and reflect His character to the world.

This inseparable connection between loving God and loving others has profound implications for the Christian life. It means that our faith cannot be a private, individualistic affair, but must be lived out in community and service to others. It means that our worship and devotion to God must be accompanied by practical acts of love and compassion towards our neighbor.

It also means that we cannot compartmentalize our lives, loving God in our religious activities but neglecting to love others in our daily interactions. Rather, every aspect of our lives must be integrated and submitted to the Lordship of Christ, reflecting His love in all that we do.

The inseparable connection between loving God and loving others is beautifully illustrated in the life and ministry of Jesus Christ. Jesus perfectly loved and obeyed the Father, but He also poured out His life in love and service to others. He healed the sick, comforted the brokenhearted, and welcomed the outcast and marginalized. He ultimately demonstrated the greatest act of love by laying down His life for the sins of the world.

As followers of Christ, we are called to imitate His example and to walk in His footsteps. We are called to love God with all our being and to love our neighbor as ourselves. This is not an easy task, but it is the heart of the Christian life and the key to experiencing the abundant life that Jesus promised (John 10:10).

As we seek to love God and others, we must depend on the grace and power of the Holy Spirit. We must daily surrender our lives to Christ and allow Him to conform us to His image. We must seek to abide in His love and to allow His love to flow through us to others.

In a world that is often marked by hatred, division, and selfishness, the love of Christ is a powerful witness and a transformative force. As we love God and others with the love of Christ, we will bring hope, healing, and reconciliation to a broken world. We will be a light in the darkness, pointing others to the One who is the source of all love and life.

Reflective Questions:

  1. How do you see the connection between loving God and loving others in your own life?
  2. What are some practical ways you can demonstrate your love for God by loving others?
  3. How can a focus on these two great commandments shape the priorities and mission of the church?
  4. In what ways have you experienced the transformative power of Christ’s love in your own life and relationships?
  5. How can you cultivate a deeper dependence on the Holy Spirit to enable you to love God and others more fully?

Conclusion

In this Bible study, we have explored Jesus’ teaching on love as the greatest commandment. We have seen that the commandments to love God with all our being and to love our neighbor as ourselves are the foundation and fulfillment of all other commandments and teachings.

We have also seen that these two commandments are inseparably connected and mutually reinforcing. Our love for God is demonstrated and authenticated by our love for others, and our love for others is empowered and motivated by our love for God.

As believers, we are called to make these commandments the center of our lives and the guiding principle of our relationships with God and others. This is not always easy, as it requires a daily surrender of our own desires and a willingness to sacrificially serve and love others.

However, as we seek to love God and others with the love of Christ, we will experience the joy, peace, and fulfillment that comes from living in alignment with God’s will and purpose for our lives. We will also be a powerful witness to the world of the transforming love of God.

May we never forget the simple yet profound truth that “God is love” (1 John 4:8, NKJV). May we seek to know and experience the depth of His love for us, and may we be conduits of that love to others. May our lives be marked by a deep love for God and a sincere love for our neighbors.

As we live out these two great commandments, we will be fulfilling the heart of God’s desire for His people. We will be reflecting the character and nature of Christ to the world, and we will be experiencing the abundant life that He promised to those who follow Him.

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